HOW TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE
Most of our lives are dedicated to just getting through the day. Many ancient teachings point to a technique which can be used in daily life, to completely change the results of your efforts. Zookinesis explains that the nature of your identity, your impression you have of who you are, not only determines the results of your efforts but also subconsciously is transmitted to others. The people around you pick up the impression you have of yourself and react to you accordingly.
This means that if your impression of yourself should change, it will change not only in your own mind, but in the mind of those around you.
If your identity is tied to your past experiences you can never change. Your past experiences are the result of your past identity. Your identity determines how you interact with others and with situations. Those situations result from a pattern of your own behavior which is based on your identity. You see how you can be trapped in behavior patterns which then trap you in repeated situations.
The key to this problem, in many ancient teaching systems, is NOT to find out who you are, but to CREATE who you are. Determine who you would like to be. Create a character, as if in a play, and little by little surround yourself with the scenery to enact that play. The scenery may be the décor in your house or it may be a behavior, such as singing during the day as you are working. You might take a few minutes out each day to go outside and just enjoy being alive. It doesn’t take much.
Gradually experiment with what scenery (internal or external) makes you feel good or bad. Realize that you can become whoever you want to be. In fact, one of the goals of life is to play. We often forget about play as we grow older. Play is not only for children practicing to be adults. It is the joy of life. And by “play” I don’t mean competitive sports. I’m talking about playing with what your life is all about.
It’s easy to feel that because the bills keep coming in it’s important to be serious all the time. We have arranged our culture to “feed the economic machine” rather than to maximize the enjoyment of life.
Do you really need all the new gadgets? Or would your money best be spent living simply but not having to worry about the bills? What is it that leads to a more joyful life and what is it that takes joy away?
These are questions you ask if you want to be creative with your identity. Create a beautiful myth about who you are and what you are doing with your life. Gradually move in that direction, while of course, taking care of practical matters. Don’t let a day go by without spending at least a few minutes remembering your myth and asking yourself, “How could I have become that myth a little bit more today?”
When our identity is the result of our creativity rather than our past patterns of behavior, we then gain power in our lives. We have to be willing to let go of elements of our old identity to gain new, brighter elements. We have to be willing to release our rear foot from the ground in order to take a step forward.
There is a story I always tell of an old ship which sank in the Hudson River in New York. and was buried under mud. Ships with cranes were hired to lift it but none succeeded. Finally someone suggested that an empty barge be positioned above the boat at low tide. Chains were connected from the buried ship to the barge. When high tide came in the buoyancy of the barge lifted the buried ship.
Your myth is similar to the barge. While your life may seem to be buried under bills and problems, the myth can just sit there. As the tide of time washes in, that myth can lift you up into a new life.
You are not being “false” by living a myth. A myth does not mean that your new identity is not true. It means that your identity is now part of your creative nature. It is alive and adds to your vitality.
When your identity is alive and vital you feel energized and ready for life. Who would you really like to be?